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Yearning for Love? Take These 6 Critical Steps

Who of you is dreaming of creating a relationship full of love, care, understanding and commitment? But do you know how to attract love to your life and where to start? Learn it today and change your life.

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Before You Begin Attracting Love

There is one important rule to follow if you want to attract love:

Love comes only when you yourself are in love.

As with the rest of the Universe, love undergoes Universal Laws. The Law of Attraction is one of them. In the shortest, it stays that we attract all that vibrates with the same frequency you vibrate.

If your assumptions concerning relationships are unhealthy, you ruminate about your painful experiences and have negative beliefs about love - it cannot come into your life.

Why You Cannot Attract Love

Hence, you cannot attract someone who will love you if there is no self-love in your personal life. But you will attract someone similar to you. Two auras meet and then you and him/her know that "it's it" - you want to spend more time with each other, meet him/her or even start a family.

If you believe that there is only one partner in the Universe for you, there will be one person available, but hidden behind other people. Were your past relationships similar? Perhaps you have dated crazy or abusive partners?

Unfortunately, without self-love, you could not have other options than dating or even living with this kind of person.

Some Words of Caution

However, when you change your thinking, wonders happen. But before you learn how to use the Law of Attraction for love, bear in mind that:

You Need to Do Some Work

The tips I will describe above are simple, but they will not work without pulling up your sleeves and doing some work. It will be much easier to apply these tips if you do want to find a new, loving partner.

You Create a Given Relationship, Not a Person

This is something that many people misunderstand. We have no right to put pressure on other people's decisions (the law of free will). We have to respect his/her independence. There is no being one's property in love.

The Blueprint of Attracting Love

Now I will present you with the promised six ways of attracting love. Study them carefully and take the necessary action to achieve your goal.

1. Realise Your Vibrations

The Law of Attraction always works, regardless of whether you use it consciously or not. It simply is, the same as the gravitational law. There is also another universal law important here: the Law of Correspondence which states "your outer world shows your inner world."

Hence, all your past relationships mirrored your attitude at those times. When you change vibrations, your life will change, too. Read this article to learn how to do it. Also, do not forget to protect your vibrations from energetic vampires and other kinds of negative energy.

2. Define What You Want from Love

Your intention is crucial in the Law of Attraction. It is hard to attract something indescribable. Hence, define what kind of partner and relationship you want.

I repeat again: you do not attract a particular person but a relationship with him/her. No expectation list of features and behaviours.

Buy a thin notebook and for a while describe your ideal relationship, full of love and self-love. Give yourself a time limit, a couple of days to a week. Making a final decision about what you want is essential.

Your intention must have no ambiguity and question marks. otherwise, the universe goes crazy as your order has not been placed properly.

3. Allow Love Come To into Your Life

Despite common dogma about the subconscious mind, it does not need much time to change something. It is just the question of decision, one "click" and switch in your head

Hence, opening to love does not mean some weeks of meditation. You just make one, irreversible decision: "I am opening to love."

It may be easy, but more often, there will be some beliefs-programs blocking you. You will need to work with them first. More articles about beliefs will be published soon.

To become aware of how you perceive love now, answer these questions:

  • What does "relationship" mean to you?

  • What does your relationship with your partner look like today? What did your past relationships look like?

  • What kind of relationship acted your parents have?

Answer these questions thoroughly, writing your conclusions in the notebook. These three questions are enough to show you how far your subconscious mind is from what you want now. And it is now your responsibility to eliminate any negativity. Start by changing your thinking.

4. Tune to Your Partner

You must tune in to your new partner. It is possible that he/she does not match your current lifestyle. It is okay, you just need to make some effort to become the person he/she wants.

Just create a life that will be compatible with your new partner's. What can you do to raise your vibrations right now?

Stay calm. If you have no ideas, check the previous steps and this website's category Vibrations again. The Universe will give you the answer, sending you the appropriate events which will help you to tune your vibrations.

Your job is not to interfere with this process and allow it to be carried away by it.

5. Practise Self-Love

This step will last for a while. I have already written two articles about self-love on that website. Focus on yourself to create a so-called excessive potential, used by the Universe to guide you.

Create a person whom you are proud of. Remember that thanks to self-love it will be easier to create a healthy relationship with someone else.

Never seek a panacea to your wounds or someone who will fill in your void. It will never happen without self-love. Only then you can have a fulfilled, happy life.

Self-love means maturity, which in turn means emotional stability and the feeling of life's mission, helping to create and maintain the relationship. Never skip this step as otherwise, your vibration will still be too low to attract true love.

6. Trust Life

Having gone through the previous steps or being underway with the fifth one, follow this advice: trust life.

You must believe that your subconsciousness is doing everything to achieve your goal, that the Law of Attraction is working, and that you are waiting for your order - without doubts, mood swings, depression, worrying, fears, or the feeling of lack.

Your new, true love is underway, your new life is being created. The life which will be in accord with the life of a man/woman you want in it. Grow, focus on yourself and... just wait.

Love comes mostly unexpectedly, often at the least desirable moment. It may happen in a month's or a year's time. Do not look but be sensitive to the signs. The Universe knows what it is doing.

Use Meditation

Ask God for help with the pursuit of your new soulmate. also, by cleansing your mind and aura from energetic hooks and any kind of negativity, you invite the new to come.

Let's meditate together

Connect by telepathy during meditation on Saturdays at 8 pm GMT. I will meditate with you and other people so that our joint energy can create miracles. Send your intention to the Universe. Transform your life and the world.

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In a Nutshell

Today you have learnt the six steps of attracting love to your life. Define what you want, transform negativity into high vibrations and focus on self-love. Use the Law of Attraction to your advantage. Good luck. With lots of love and light,



Vicky is an experienced holistic writer and coach that inspires, motivates, and encourages everyone to become the best version of themselves - physically, mentally, and spiritually.


The content of Awaken Happy Life is published for educational and informative purposes only. It does not substitute medical or any other professional advice. Please seek professional care if you believe you may have a condition. The author of Awaken Happy Life is not liable for any consequences of applying any advice published on this website by the reader.


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