Making decisions is a difficult play. You usually face many fears and doubts. Learn the 12 deficient steps of how to make decisions in an effective and holistic way.
Make Good Decisions
Decisions are often a difficult moments for each human being because we can have freedom of choice, but at the same time, we do not know the consequences that these decisions will bring.
We might be paralysed with the opportunity to choose which can become a must because sitting on the fence will become so inconvenient that it hurts more than deciding.
The Holistic Approach to Making Decisions
We are living on the planet of choice. There is always an option to choose right or evil, black, and white, light and darkness. We make decisions concerning our physical, etheric, mental, emotional, and spiritual life.
Some mystic traditions say that when you do not have defined the pathway of your soul, the feeling of choice emerges. When your soul knows her pathway, then it is not necessary to feel the pressure to make decisions, it is enough to follow your soul plan.
You feel the flow and react to any flaws with calmness and without much rumination. It is also unnecessary to seek clues and weigh the pros and cons.
You feel the pressure to make decisions only in the case of not being sure which pathway to choose and then you start searching the pluses and minuses of a given situation.
How To Make Good Decisions
Hence, if you feel as being at a crossroads and your soul does not give you any tips on what to do and he or she is not drawn to any direction, use the tips described below.
1. Find a Sign
Ask the Universe for a sign and then sharpen your senses for all the signals. You can use the quantum questions from my blog. When you feel that the Universe tells you "Hey, choose the pathway c!
Necessarily! You will see it will be super!" then you will feel the Universe's care and be more convinced of your decision yourself. Waiting for the signs from the Universe may take some time, e.g. hours, weeks and even years, but it is worth your while.
2. Check the Destiny
If you cannot make a decision and toss it, let the issue go, stop working on it and let the Universe work. Get busy with something else, allowing your superconscious mind to work. If you start feeling that a given issue means being up the creek without the paddle, dump it totally or at least modify the goal or postpone it.
3. Ask Yourself Before Making Decisions
Meditate in calmness and see what comes up in your head when you are thinking about your decision. You will find the answer sent from the deepest part of your soul.
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4. Make a Decision
Sometimes it is best to just decide. Once you have checked the signs coming from your intuition and soul, you can decide what to do. Remember that life is like chess and if you do not plan, your pawn will be beaten by the Universe.
5. Sleep with It
Write down your doubts and possible options on a piece of paper before going to bed. You might find the answer while dreaming and the next day you will have some feelings or conclusions concerning the issue that bothers you. It happens because your self has been working very hard for some hours during sleep.
6. The Rule Of First Thought
Ask the question concerning your issue to yourself. Then record what is your first thought, before you start analysing the results and making conclusions.
Each first thought is this best thought, still undisturbed by your ego and its experiences. It is a kind of intuition, flash the first whisper of your soul. Therefore, your first thought is a kind of guide.
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7. Rational Decisions
If your soul does not talk and the Universe does not give you a clue what to choose, consider all pros and cons to make a rational decision.
The decision tree written on the piece of paper is the best solution here. Write down each choice's pros and cons and then the flash of your intuition will appear. One clue: it is important to live in the light while making a decision. Otherwise, you will face bad karma later.
8. Delegate Responsibility
I do not mean delegating the problem to other people. You are still responsible for your decision. However, you can use some tools which will help you to pick up the best option.
Use cards or a coin to find the answer because fortuity does not exist. Analysing the symbols which will be liable for your decision now will exfoliate your inner needs. You will learn the things which are not named yet. Thanks to the draw your soul can be heard at last.
9. Listen to And Rely on Your Emotions
As I wrote earlier, the feeling of lightness and peace of mind indicates that your decision is in accordance with your soul path, and you have chosen the right option.
The same case is when you feel ecstasy while thinking of a given way, or a wonderful thrill and inner voice which is jumping for joy. All these signs show that your soul is happy with the new journey.
10. Any Decisions Made Will Be Good for You
It happens because otherwise, this solution would not come up on your way. Nothing is a mistake, every experience is beneficial and necessary. Treat your decision as another experience which is neither good nor bad.
It is just another lesson which may bring many worthy reflections and clues which you can use in your further life. Whatever you will choose now will be right and good for you at this particular moment.
11. The 10/10 Rule
Ask yourself a question: Will I regret this decision in ten minutes time? Will I regret it in ten months' time? Will I think about it with embarrassment in ten years' time?
If you are not paralysed by these questions and can give an answer easily and they are negative, the time has come to act and make the decision. Otherwise, you WILL regret that you have not taken action.
12. Analyse the Worst
Ask yourself another question in the case of doubt:
What is the worst scenario that might happen when I make this decision?
You see, usually, 90% of your worries will not happen, the next 8% will be solved easily and the last 2% may need the help of other people. The question is how probable it is 2%? 2 cases for 100? 20 for 1000?
Not much as you see. And what is more, knowing the worst scenario you can take steps to minimise the chance that it happens and its consequence for you, e.g., saving some money, buying insurance etc.
In a Nutshell
Today you have learned some tools which will help you to make the best decisions in your life. You can ask your soul, use a coin throw, or pick up a card, sleep with this dilemma and use the 10/10 or 10 + 1 rules. Good luck with making the best decisions in your life. With lots of love and light,
Vicky is an experienced holistic writer and coach that inspires, motivates, and encourages everyone to become the best version of themselves - physically, mentally, and spiritually.
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